Triggered! Learning to love unconditionally

The power of Sacred Union brings us the potential for assisting with multidimensional transformation of human consciousness.
One such transformation is clearing andcollective dissolution of the dysfunctional emotional templates used to generate chaos, and discord in life in general and emotional and energetic separation specifically between sacred union counterparts.
These templates are part of the 3D Construct, and being triggered by any one of these templates sets off the energy of separation, runner and chasing that take years to resolve within the ‘twin flame’ narrative.
 This intention to generate separation can be a trigger for one or both ‘twins’.
However, those of us who have been prepared to grow and evolve through sacred union are presented with different choices as well as assistance from the Third Way, which is the combined energies of Source, Soul, and feminine and masculine energies.
Whichever of the two sacred union counterparts takes the lead in opening a template after being triggered, whoever will be moved by a felt disturbance in their energy field, to unpack the information and then unwind that energy to transform it into coherent creative energy is determined in the moment, but usually one sacred union counterpart has more life experience while the other may be developing has greater recognition and feeling resonance into the emotion states that are being triggered.
Recently, I’ve been given the opportunity to learn how to consciously interact with these templates that play a major role in our unconscious use of time, energy and life force through mis-use and misdirection of the creative power of human emotion.
Here are three templates I was recently given to clear. All three templates were intended to disrupt and/or contaminate the space of sacred Union that I share with my divine masculine counterpart.
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Here are a few old relationship paradigm templates that surfaced between June 1 and June 13th, 2017:
1) Jealousy/rejection/abandonment
2) Intrigue/deception/betrayal
3) Loss/payoff/disappointment
Template 1:  Jealousy/rejection/abandonment
The first template interrupted connection with my divine masculine counterpart as a result of his choice to create an entanglement with another woman in 3D, a woman who is not his divine counterpart.
I was aware of this choice without him having to tell me that he had gotten into a relationship. Although I’m his sacred union counterpart, it’s not my role to interfere with his free will choices.  However, I do have to manage the impact of his choices on my energy field, emotions, and states of consciousness.
He made this choice because he felt abandoned by me when I withdrew from subtle body charge (sexual) dynamics that didn’t align our heart energies and so couldn’t be used for conscious co-creative purpose. \
I haven’t been in a sexual entanglement for more than 20 years, so when I had a distressing dream that triggered jealousy? I was on alert  for other emotional triggers I know to be associated with the core wound of abandonment and the heartbreak of rejection.
The next event  triggered rejection but because I had already awakened to the dysfunctional emotional template, I quickly moved through the mirroring of rejection ‘for just being me’ without this trigger destabilizing my energy field.
The  next event on that same day was an internal feeling state of emotional abandonment when my counterpart chose not to respond to my phone call because he was feeling/perceiving (being triggered to believe) that I had abandoned him emotionally and sexually when I had not.
It had been some time since we had connected and communicated in truth and transparency, which is an ongoing necessity within the sacred union dynamic.
In my own space, doing my thing with friends, taking a much needed break from a steep learning curve and energetic intensity, I was focused in this direction and not on him, although I was attentive to our union space.
We didn’t get to speak to each until the following day.
In our conversation, I sharedthe jealousy dream and in sharing, I realized the dream had been a gift. It revealed — to ME — having transitioned from a choice to express platonic love with this man into a deepening love that includes sexual desire for him in 3D.
Totally appears to be completely impractical, but The Third Energy doesn’t care about what our ego chooses to think.
Our  conversation cleared the energy of our sacred union space. we communicated not through reactivity — as in a storm/argument — but in clarity, coherence and transparency which is a prime directive intention of union.
Earlier in the week, before taking a weekend off to be with my friends, our combined Higher Self showed up (in the 3rd Energy) to ask him what he wants. One of his expressed desires was a sexual relationship with a 30 year old woman, someone his age, a woman who was interested in him, and who would want to have a sexual relationship with him.
I absorbed his 3D truth and found a neutral relationship to the data that didn’t pull or push me off having realized my love for him  and a deeper self-love, too, because hearing him tell me what he wanted which from his perspective I couldn’t give him, I could have chosen to feel rejected and not good enough, but I didn’t.
My counterpart sharing an expressed desires that couldn’t possibly include me and his doing so triggered us both into bringing up a template for mutual transformation.
Having more life experience, I have lived through making the choice for an intimate relationship that enabled us to remain in separation with ourselves. I wasn’t yet thirty years old when I made the ‘wrong’ choice. There was no one in my real world or spiritual world at that time who could hold unconditional love for me while I gained the wisdom to sort my issues out. I was scared to death of being truly, deeply, madly, and authentically loved.
I chose hearbreak, pain and suffering because there was nothing inside of me that knew healthy love. Sound familiar?
And so my counterpart and I moved through the first template that I had been introduced to but with wisdom and help I didn’t chose separation. Our spiritual maturity allowed for deeper intimacy and greater transparency with each other.  Reconnection with our subtle bodies followed the next day.
In our subtle energy body exchange, my counterpart connected heart energy first before igniting our shared kundalini creative spark. I gladly received this change of approach.  However, our ignited and shared electromagnetic/creative spark triggered Template 2: intrigue/deception/betrayal.

Sacred Union: Simultaneous Expansion and Contraction

Sacred union is a profound connection. In union, we embody new energies and clear out old templates and patterns that began with the system of separation. This is a dynamic space of expansion and contraction as we reform and transform the matter with which we are most intimately connected.

There is communication between sacred union counterparts in 5D and higher realms. Sensitives ccesss active telepathy, and we communicate with our sacred union counterparts as we navigate our union and communicate through openings of consciousness in these higher realms.

Translating energy from 5D to 3D is the most challenging aspect of maintaining balanced communication.

We need courage to link 5D telepathy with 3D personality ego structures and to use our heart energy, subtle bodies, and our mouths  to communicate with our partners. What holds form as an orange in 5D may appear as an apple or the entire category of fruit in 3D.

Being transparent, truthful, and willing to honor our sacred connection means we frequently can and do risk rejection.

Being in balance and in zero point energy much of the time, I no longer leak or  waste my life force. I have lived every day as if might be my last  for 20 years.  In living this way, I fucked system of separation generated fear, seducing Wholeness with clear intention, unconditional love and trust in life.

I have direct knowledge that everything is information, everything is conscious, and everything is in relationship. When we live in conscious relationship to the sacred circle, line, and spiral we stop looping. We use the sacred spiral; traveling into our heart center energy and personal torus, the sacred line penetrates zero point energy within us, and we reach our Source creator’s love light.

We loop, going around in repeating cycles of incomplete creation because our access to the sacred circle, spiral and line are in separation.

“Line” acting on its own in separation is an expression of damaged masculine energy. This distorted masculine energy creates the ‘runner’ separation and duality perception that fuels distortions in the  Twin Flame narrative.

“Circle” separated from the sacred spirla and line becomes an expression of distorted feminine energy. This damaged sacred circle expressed as distorted feminine energy creates the ‘chaser’ separation aspect of duality perception in the Twin Flame Narrative.

Sacred Union is our soul journey back to Wholeness.

Reunited with the sacred line and the sacred spiral, we are divine feminine energy being essence in balance in Source creative love light.  Reunited with the sacred circle and sacred spiral , we are divine masculine energy being balanced form in Source. Our journey within to Source and zero point energy frees us from duality perception; masculine and feminine are free to co-create as one.

The Sacred Union through connection between two embodied human beings is validation of releasing duality perception, surrendering ego defensive shadow, and transforming narcissistic, fear-based, service-to-self choices.

Masculine: “It’s ‘all about me’, and that’s okay, because I’m conflict avoidant, and I’m move on down the line. This is how I unconsciously choose separation and disconnection.”

Feminine: “It’s all about you, and that’s okay because being female I have no idea how to love except to offer up my sacred circle (vagina) to whoever validates the lie that  I’m not loved and I’m unlovable” through misuse of sacred sensuality.”

Enlightenment and Ascension are just words originating in mind energy unless there is a living anchor in direct, energetic experience connected to Source and Gaia.

Chasing Enlightenment and/or Ascension can be a trap and a path for choosing physical separation in favor of the illusion of spiritual unity.

Playing it safe? Playing dead? Check in with your heart center. When we become the embodiment of loving, conscious co-creators, which is the purpose of sacred union, we watch the illusions of life generated by the system of separation roll as we are willing to be deeply touched by our awakened soul.